October 1, 2012 § 28 Comments
There are some important bits and pieces of news to be shared around here, friends. First, I got bangs. Whoa. It’s been several days, but I still do a double take every time I see myself. And I’m still trying to decide whether it is a good or bad double take. Time will tell. (Time will also grow my hair back out, so maybe it won’t tell. I may be doomed to eternal ambiguity. Yipes.)
I also saw the preview for the newest season of Downton Abbey. Oh dear. Now I won’t be able to sleep until I can watch the full season…and then once it’s on I won’t be able to sleep because I’ll be fretting too much about every one in the show! Well, mostly I’m just over-invested in Lady Mary’s happiness. She’s just awesome. Though not quite as awesome as the Dowager Countess. But that goes without saying.
Oh, it’s also our one year wedding anniversary. Woo! Because we decided to go ahead and elope before our wedding, we’ve technically been married for two years and one month. A month ago we were up in the Northwoods reuning with old friends and we mentioned that it was our anniversary. “No,” they declared, “your anniversary is in October!” And you know what, they were the ones who were right.
A marriage and a wedding are about two people, a couple, but they are also about more. A wedding and a marriage are about love, hope, commitment, about a special occasion but also the day-to-day. They are about the friends and family, the community, that is there witnessing and supporting the couple who weds. We knew that then and still focus on that now. We knew that well enough to be planning a wedding with our community, even as we decided to elope. « Read the rest of this entry »